being a child of divorce never gets fun

it's always been hard dividing up the holidays without hurting someone's feelings. now that i'm married and there's more beloved and wonderful family it's even harder. thankfully despite my enormous levels of stress about it all parties involved have acted magnanimous and flexible. i've made every effort i can to be fair (if you could see my spreadsheet you'd know). i just hope everyone really is ok with our division of time. sigh.